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‘love 40: An Overview

Birthday ruminations

by j. brotherlove

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And here I am on the other side of the Big Four Oh. I’d like to say I have some sort of deep insight on what it feels like; but I really have no idea. It hasn’t set in yet.

Technically, it’s just another day. But in our age-obsessed society, there’s always a bit more to it, right? And in gay years, I’m ready for AARP and senior citizen discounts at the club.

I have to thank all of my friends and guests for helping celebrate the day (select pics on Flickr for friends and family). Lord knows a lot of folk don’t make it this far.

And now, an overview of my birthday weekend:

    Greatest Hightlights
  • Pre-Party with Onyx at Atlanta Eagle
  • Music playlist (and you know this)
  • thebrotherlove in leather pants
  • Landing my biggest design contract
  • Tiffany gracing DIC

    Biggest Disappointments
  • Not hearing from The Ex
  • One obnoxious, uninvited guest
  • Too cold for the hot tub
  • Two nights of heavy drinking wipes out thebrotherlove
  • No birthday sex

    Crowd Favorite Songs
  • “Sea And Sky” — Julie & Khari
  • “The Word Is Out” — Jermaine Stewart
  • “Throw Some D’s” — Rich Boy
  • “Something In The Way” — 4Hero
  • “U Got Me Up” — Dajae

    Nibbly Things
  • Lesley’s red beans & rice
  • Prime’s Rum Cake
  • Flank steak w/smoked gouda
  • Spinach dip
  • Marinated chicken bites

    Poisons of Choice
  • SoCo & 7-Up
  • Ray Rae’s Hibernation Punch
  • Patron
  • Moet & Chandon Nectar Imperial
  • Water

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Happy Birthday! It seems you have a very memorable time. I’m still waiting to feel “older” myself.

2. Anitra

Sounds like a great time was had. Yay! Congrats on the design contract and oooooohhhh @ the pre-party with Onyx.

Happy Birthday. Welcome to the club.

4. intellifreak

Hey I tried for the birthday sex. You were just too drunk to remember. Anyway, happy birthday!

5. fire_nex_time

Congrats in hitting the big 40! I just turned 40 this past October and its been great. I now officially feel like I can call myself grown. Haven’t you heard? 40 is the new 20!

Peace

yes prime’s cake was bananas. i’m still mulling over that nectar imperial… i suspect it reacted negatively with whatever sprite was left over in my cup. which of course a thinly-veiled excuse to buy a bottle for myself.

Happy Birthday J ! If you’re what 40 looks like then I’m ready to skip my 30’s ! Hope you had a wonderful day.

Well, it is about time you caught-up. ;) Happy Birthday.

All the best on being on the other side of the Big Four Oh! As my grandma says, “Looking so good, that one makes you look twice over your shoulder.”

10. Nix

If that picture of you above is you at 40, you look radiant!
I hope it was a good day, and here’s to many more.

Happy belated birthday!
Mine was on the 8th so I was surprised to see yours so close to mine.


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